Friday, 13 February 2009

Mother Told By Doctor to Abort Has Healthy Baby



May God bless this family. The fact that respected doctors are 'advising' abortions is quite incredible really. Ultimately what right to members of the medical community, who are charged with responsibility for the defence and protection of human life, have to tell someone to have an abortion? And then, once their advice has been rejected once, they tell them again!? Shocking!

Courtesy of The Telegraph

Gaynor Purdy was warned her first child could have a fatal chromosome defect and a life threatening heart condition. But she rejected two suggestions to terminate the pregnancy and she and her husband Lee are celebrating life with their "perfect" ten-month-old son. Mrs Purdy, 28, a quality control inspector, said: "We refused to give up on him, and decided throughout the pregnancy that as long as he was fighting, we would continue fighting with him."

The couple from Scunthorpe, Lincs, were delighted when they discovered they had conceived shortly before their first wedding anniversary. Four months into the pregnancy doctors told them that part of their unborn child's heart was narrow and underdeveloped and would mean open heart surgery if the baby was born. They were warned the condition could worsen and around Christmas last year, an immediate termination should be considered.

Further tests conducted a few days later on New Year's Eve suggested the baby could also have Edwards Syndrome - the presence of an 18th chromosome - with a life expectancy of only up to four months if birth is survived. Consultants again recommended the couple consider aborting the baby, fearing he would little to no quality of life once he was born.

For the second time, Mrs Purdy and her husband, a 29 year old forklift driver, declined the suggestion. Kai was born six weeks premature on March 5 at Scunthorpe General Hospital weighing just 2lb 6oz and immediately admitted to intensive care, but was discharged within six weeks.

One side of his heart was slightly bigger than the other which may need an operation to correct in the future, but regular tests have been showing the condition is constantly improving. The chromosome disorder, which affects growth, is also being closely monitored and he is due to undergo some corrective cosmetic surgery in the New Year. Mrs Purdy added: "Doctors told us he was a little miracle baby. They said his heart must have been mending itself. "Last year we were still on a knife edge thinking things would go wrong. But now he's out of the woods we are delighted that 2009 will be Kai's year."

A spokesman from Northern Lincolnshire and Goole Hospitals NHS Trust said they cannot comment on individual cases. But he added: "Where abnormalities are spotted in the scans, our multi-disciplinary team will always offer prospective families the full facts and options as presented at the time. "The team will then try to accommodate the prospective parents' wishes in the interests of mother and baby. We wish the family well."

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Anonymous said...

They have a lovely son. I watched a programme once-one of those follow a pregnancy ones. The couple were hispanic and expecting a little girl. One of the scans showed she had a shadow on her brain. Doctors quite forcefully said abortion was the option. The couple refused. The pressure was so great they changed hospitals (this was USA where such choices can be made). Their daughter was born and was 100% healthy. The scan was WRONG!
I also knew a girl I met online while I was pregnant. She was told as her son was unlikely to live long she should have an abortion.
She was really torn. To my surprise quite a few of us urged her not to abort.
Her son was born prem and she held him for 20mins looking into his eyes and having her time with him and her boyfriend too until he died.
They mourn him of course-but she is grateful they had that time and did not have to kill him.

Anonymous said...

Laurence-please can I ask you to allow this:
I don’t normally do this kind of thing-but please would you and anyone else you can get come and leave messages supporting homeschoolers on my blog. We are hoping the more support we get the more we can show the Govt.
Thank you and God bless

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